If THATS love... I don't want it.

Against my better judgment, I decided to watch "The Bachelor" tonight. I have been hearing women rave about it for years, but never took the time to watch an episode. I must say it is the most appalling, disrespectful, ridiculous show I have ever seen in my entire life! Those of you who love the show or think that this man deserves anything other than swift kick in his groin should stop reading now.

How on earth does anyone watch this show and enjoy it? Twenty minutes after it started I was so mad I was ready to call ABC & let them know what idiots they were for producing such a preposterous program. I am assuming with the ratings & money they are bringing in, they care nothing about what I have to say - Looks like I will just blog about it.

First off all "The Bachelor" that everyone thinks is so sweet, caring, and perfect is a PIG! Hate to break it to you ladies, but the man is a player. He's worthless and if he wasn't on TV with his new veneers & swanky suits ABC put him in, no one would even be interested. One might argue that this less than intelligent individual has something to offer, but I beg to differ. There is something SERIOUSLY wrong with a man that looks like THAT and has to go on national TV to find "love."

Within four minutes he has kissed three woman & expressed from the very bottom of his loving heart how much and how deeply he cares. He is selfish, self centered, and an absolute liar. If you think this type of love is real or sweet than maybe you should consider being with a Polygamist!

The worst part of this foolish charade is that I am almost positive there is a woman on the show that honestly believes this idiot is going to be faithful when she gets him home! He has been getting what he wants, when he wants it, from multiple gorgeous women. Why would he stop when the cameras stop rolling? If he is going to kiss on your roommate, it is inevitable he is going to have relations with every woman that that will allow it after the show.

Even more appalling than his behavior, is that there are women on this show that have babies at home! Being a momma DOES NOT mean leaving your babies at home while you go on TV and beg for attention from a man. How about getting a little self respect for you and your child. Once you have babies, you are not just dating for you. If that person does not work for your children than they shouldn't be working at all.

I'll be damned if I EVER beg for a man the way these women are. Maybe I am old fashioned but I fully believe in men PURSUING women. I need a man intelligent enough to know that monogamy is not something you make dining tables out of, & confident enough to only be with one woman at a time. For those of you who think it's okay to beg to be with an unfaithful man, I wish you luck. I personally think it's disgusting & a total lack of self respect.